Groupies vs. Wifeys

Let me tell you something ladies!! Groupies are not just around football players, basketball players, or any athletes in general. They are also around musicians, politicians, or possibly even your husband at work. I'm not saying this to scare you. I'm saying it to acknowledge that anyone can go through an uncomfortable moment in their relationship.

It's also a reminder that you can not control other people, therefore, it is important to focus on putting that energy into your own marriage. Kind of like you did when you were dating...wink wink!! We have to let each other know that we are sexy, intriguing, amazing, and most importantly LOVED!! Everyone wants to feel loved! So, ask your partner how you can show them more love and visa versa.

Remember that people change, so what worked before may be outdated. Similar to that outfit or pair of shoes you still have sitting in the back of your closet that you keep holding on to. Hehe! It's important to continually invest and pour into your marriage. That's why date nights, one on one talks, and intimate connections are so vital. Take time to check in once a week or even twice a month. You may be surprised with the answers you receive!